Monday, February 8, 2016

Black Girl Got The Juice

Hey y'all! I'm BACK!  I know, I know it's been far too long but I am so glad to be back on the heels of yet another glorious Beyonce performance. I have so many awesome things to share on this whirlwind of journey that I have been on this past year. I am getting my juice back--the juice that I never really left me but is coming out swinging in 2016. 

What is this juice I'm talking about? Glad you asked:

This revolution for Black women and girls across the country comes from one of my favorite clothing designers Joshlyn Turner who is also the owner of The Write Fit. I've always looked at myself and my sister friends and recognized that there was something different in us. Something that propels us to move forward and impact the world around us in so many profound ways in spite of the many challenges that we may face. Sometimes our days are long and thankless. We experience stress, health issues, have setbacks, and often get very little sleep. However, by the grace of God, Black women across the country continue to come out on top because we have the juice. Joshlyn says that Black Girls Got The Juice is important to her because it is her--it is all of us. "With so much emphasis placed on our image, I constantly look in the mirror and tell myself that I am enough. You might ask where our juice comes from. Our ancestors gave us the juice. We been had it, we always will. We are the driving force of society. We are the leaders in entertainment, music, education, and fashion. Everything we touch is golden. And the purpose of this line is to show Black women, young and old, that the juice has and always will be the driving force of this world. Never forget."

I am a firm believer in uplifting, supporting, and celebrating sisters. So how can I not spread the word? What better message to remind us that even in the midst of chaos in the pursuit of our dreams, our work, school, and relationships--no one can take our juice from us. Let this juice that runs through our veins drive us to reach new heights in our whatever our calling is in 2016 and beyond. My grandparents gave me my juice and I am using it to do great things and to be a model for the Black girls in my life who need someone to remind them that they have it too in a world that often depicts them as less than. Excellence is not exceptional; it is the Black girl standard.  

As my boo Beyonce says dream it, work hard, and grind till we own it. We got the juice y'all!

Black Girls Got The Juice.

What gives you your juice? How are you using it this year?

Friday, May 29, 2015

Be the Light

So this has been in draft from for far to long--YIKES!! Since turning 30, I have been quite reflective. While most people dread this milestone, I welcomed it. I saw turning 30 as a fresh start to a new era in my life. I want to commit this next season of my life to being the light. There is a lot of darkness in the world and I want to press forward by being the light through this blog, through my work, and through my life.  I read this in my devotional a while ago. Indulge me as a belated birthday present will you? 

Here it is:

This devotional really challenged me to strive to be the light in particularly difficult situations. There will always be someone who could be doing a better job or someone who doesn't do what they are supposed to be doing. But instead of being critical in a way that is not constructive, I want to be the light. We all want Gods grace right? Even if I have to offer a kind word when I am at my whits end or when someone is working my last nerve it will honor God in spite of how I feel. As a 30 year old woman, I am in a whole new category. I am leading a new pack. I am now removed from the 20s and ready to help lead the charge.

Be the light wherever you are. You never know why God put you in a particular situation or place. Will you let his light shine or will you dim it? I challenge you to be the light.

Be lifted my friends. 

Journaling Bible. Be the Light of the World ~ Laura McCollough Bible Journaling

Tuesday, March 3, 2015

Let Faith Lead the Way

Sometimes I think that having faith is almost too easy. I mean if we really trust God at his word, then that means everything is going to be fine no matter what. But what happens when things are not fine? In spite of our best laid plans, the things we desire and work hard for do not happen when or how we envisioned? Husbands and boos start acting crazy, that job we wanted gets passed on to someone else, that debt we have been working to payoff gets doubled by an unexpected expense, we've been living right and minding our own business but still can't catch a break...the list could go on.

Faith should be easy but it takes work.

I have been listening to Joel Osteen radio everyday for the past week or so and it is a continuous loop of messages of hope, faith, encouragement, and challenges to live better and walk in faith. I did not think I would be into talk radio because I love listening to music in the car but it has been amazing. It almost the opposite of what we do to ourselves some times--constantly replaying the messages of past hurts, bad breaks, and negativity instead of the truth of God's word.

I encourage you today, the same way that I have been challenged this week, to play the word of God over and over in our head instead of letting your mind be the devils playground. The bible tells us to "fix your thoughts on what it true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise."

I don't want you to feel that whatever your situation or past is does not matter because it does. We all have a story and a journey to going on. But know matter what is happening, ultimately we control our thoughts and we are equipped to win. Disappointments are inevitable but misery is totally optional.

The next time negative thinking tries to bind you, ask yourself am I thinking about what is driving me crazy or what is praise worthy?

Be lifted my friends.

Thursday, February 5, 2015

Hurrying Isn't Helpful

I hate when I have to rush somewhere. Chaos does not suit me well. I always forget something, lose my car keys, stub a toe, and break into a sweat. Hurrying isn't helpful to me at all. I actually move the fastest when I slow down and pace myself. Prepping things the night before so my mornings aren't chaotic does wonders for me. Setting a timer for the endless amounts of work I have to do helps me to not try to hurry work that I have time to do well.

I believe that this is the same in our lives. Trying to hurry or counting our chickens be for they hatch almost never turns out well but still we try it. We want that new car, that promotion, those shoes, or that vacation even if our bank accounts or credit are saying "have a seat ma'am". Nothing that we get in a hurry is for the long term. I think about the testimony of friends who have struggled through unemployment for years only to land their dream jobs or jobs that were better than the ones they had in the end. 

I say all that to say, take some time to slow it down. Not all people like to slow down but sometimes doing so may be best. Don't let your mind race 100 miles per minute. You don't have to do everything right now. Set your goals, make your plans, and most importantly do the work and growth you need to reap your harvest but don't hurry the process. There is a reason you don't have whatever it is you want and possibly even need right now. In fact it may be very ugly and gloomy for you. However, I challenge you to not pray that your valley passes quickly, but to pray that God will guide you on your journey. Take note of what is happening around and within in you and most importantly enjoy what you have and are doing in the meantime. 

Whatever it is, it will pass.

Hurrying isn't helpful.

Friday, January 16, 2015

Patient Endurance

Somebody get me this mug! 
Hey! I know it has been far too long. I have been drafting blog posts for months and never making the time to finish them. But this week, after much inspiration, I am finally compelled to write and post. Two of my devotional readings recently talked about patient endurance. I must admit that I am very, very impatient with some things. I partially blame the microwave/gotta have it right now culture that we live in but mostly on my lack of discipline in some areas--yes me the over achiever and recovering perfectionist lacks the discipline to follow through on some things *gasps*. Most of the time, when the "go getter" in me decides what it is that I want, I just go for it. But that hasn't helped me to reach all the personal goals that I have for myself in the past. My endurance for slow progress needs work because the most important things that I want to achieve will take time.

As we stand at the start on another year, I decided to pull out my goals from last year to see how I did. Just looking at this list quickly lets me know that I really need to work on being more patient and having some endurance. I am often so busy some times that I am literally just trying to get through each day. I really want to be present in the moments that I'm in and always keep my end goals in mind. That means that as 2015 progresses, I will need to look at my goals multiple times throughout the year and make adjustments as needed. I also have some accountability partners in place this year which was a crucial step that I missed in 2014.

Here are some of my goals for 2015:
  1. Set up saving to be automatic once per month and not dip into it. 
  2. See one Broadway show a season (4 times per year). 
  3. Read at least 6 books. 
  4. Reduce credit card debt by 50%.
  5. Increase my retirement contributions by $25.
  6. Write at least 2 blogs per month. 
  7. Reduce my weight by 10%. 
  8. Take a swimming class.
  9. Read the word every day (a scripture, a devotional, anything!!).
  10. Take piano lessons. 
My motto for 2015 is: the journey is far more important than the destination. I have a lot of places that I want to get beyond 2015. So, I want to have the patience and endurance to see things through and learn the lessons I need to learn so at the start of 2016, God willing, I will be further along the path that God has called me to. 

When you get a chance, read 2 Peter 1:2-11. The first verse really moved me this week: May God give you more and more grace and peace as you grow in your knowledge of God and Jesus our Lord. ~2 Peter 1:2 NLT

We are called to do great things. My pastor said on Sunday, it is always too soon to quit! So lets working on having patient endurance in 2015 my friends--there are great things ahead.